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The Wisdom Library

Ancient wisdom meets modern love. Deep insights for couples ready to mend beautifully.

Four distinct figures or forms that are each imperfect but made beautiful by their golden repairs, symbolizing the Horsemen and their potential for transformation.

The Four Horsemen Destroying Your Relationship (And Their Antidotes)

Congrats, you just unleashed the deadliest relationship killer. What Gottman calls the Four Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse.

14 min • November 24, 2025

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The One Question That Transforms Every Fight Into Intimacy

A simple, powerful repair tool that transforms conflict aftermath into intimacy.

10 min • November 7, 2025

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The Relationship Blueprint You Never Knew You Had (And How to Redraw It)

You learned how to love before you learned to tie your shoes. Discover the invisible patterns you inherited from your parents' relationship—and how to transform them into gold.

14 min • November 6, 2025

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The 5:1 Ratio That Predicts Relationship Success

How a simple number reveals the secret to lasting love—and why most couples get it backwards

12 min • September 30, 2025

Couple conflict can become connection

15 Micro-Connections That Strengthen Your Relationship

The tiny moments that create unbreakable bonds. Why you, and only you, can create the most powerful ones.

4 min • September 25, 2025

Couple conflict can become connection

The Beautiful Truth About Why Couples Fight

Why the couples who never argue worry relationship experts more than the ones who do.

7 min • September 12, 2025

Two safe spaces and a path forward

Welcome to LoveFix Resources

Practical, compassionate guidance to turn conflict into connection.

1 min • September 12, 2025