What is your Love Language?

Take this free 15-question Love Language Quiz to discover your primary and secondary love language, then get your personalized summary and shareable chart.

⏱ 2 min · 15 questions · Primary + secondary profile · Shareable chart

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Find your top 2 love languages.

Get a personalized profile, practical scripts, and a chart you can share with your partner.

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Built for introspection and practical communication.
Not a diagnosis. A conversation framework that helps couples act.

How to use your result

The point is not labels. The point is better translation between how you give and receive care.

Use it this week

  • Tell your partner your primary and secondary language.
  • Pick one daily action for each person.
  • Review what worked after 7 days.

Avoid common mistakes

  • Do not use the result to criticize your partner.
  • Do not assume one language is "better".
  • Focus on action, not theory debates.

What are the 5 love languages?

Use your score as a conversation starter. Most people blend at least two patterns.

Verbal reassurance

Words of Affirmation

Love lands when appreciation is spoken clearly and specifically.

Values encouragement and gratitude.
Feels distance when communication turns cold or critical.

Focused presence

Quality Time

Connection grows through undistracted moments and emotional availability.

Needs protected time without multitasking.
Feels loved when attention is fully shared.

Practical support

Acts of Service

Care feels real when effort is visible in dependable, practical actions.

Reads follow-through as commitment.
Values reliability over promises alone.

Symbolic meaning

Receiving Gifts

Thoughtful details and keepsakes communicate memory, intention, and care.

Meaning matters more than price.
Small rituals can create strong emotional anchors.

Consensual closeness

Physical Touch

Warm physical connection helps restore safety, calm, and intimacy quickly.

Feels regulated through affectionate touch.
Non-sexual closeness is often the strongest signal of care.

FAQ

Quick answers before you start.

Can I have more than one love language?

Yes. Most people have a primary and secondary language. That is why this quiz shows your full score distribution, not only one label.

Is this quiz clinical?

No. This is not a diagnosis. It is a practical reflection tool to help you and your partner translate care into daily behavior.

Why does this still help if it is not clinical?

Because relationship improvement often starts with introspection and clear communication. Even simple frameworks can reduce friction when both partners apply them consistently.