De-escalate • Normalize • Repair

For couples who want shorter fights and faster repair

Calm fights in 10 minutes with a neutral guide

Skip the spiral: structured steps that keep both of you regulated and heard.

  • 4-step de-escalation you can follow together
  • Shared “pause & re-state” prompts that feel fair
  • Repair scripts for the next 24 hours

Not sure yet? Take the attachment style quiz to understand what’s happening between you two.

2 free sessions • No credit card • Private

Make the next fight smaller

Start a 10-minute reset before the spiral turns into a night apart.

EFT inspired de-escalation Gottman style repair skills Repair plan + next steps
Couple calming down together with guidance

Why this works

What you get in LoveFix

A de-escalation playbook for couples who want fewer blowups and faster repair.

Stop the loop quickly

Interrupt spirals with prompts that cool both nervous systems.

Equal airtime

Timed turns and summaries prevent interruptions.

Repair, not just calm

Agree on the next 1 to 2 actions before the day ends.

What’s different about LoveFix

A structured de-escalation flow that keeps both nervous systems in the conversation.

De-escalation first

Calm the system before solving the problem.

Fair structure

Prompts and summaries reduce interruptions and defensiveness.

Repair-focused

End with clear next steps, not an unresolved loop.

Technical note: LoveFix is not a single chatbot. We combine multiple models with a couples specific conversation structure so it stays neutral and produces clear next steps.

How it works

Start the reset

Open the flow as soon as the tone starts rising.

Follow the steps

Short prompts guide each partner toward clarity.

Leave with a repair plan

A shared summary and 1 to 3 agreements for the next 24 hours.

A real session, step by step

Each screen is one part of the flow: start, chat, review your private summary, then end with a shared plan.

Your partner never sees your chat
Summary + agreements
1) Create a session

1) Create a session

2) Chat example

2) Chat example

3) Private summary

3) Private summary

4) Shared summary + agreements

4) Shared summary + agreements

Swipe to see each step

Grounded in relationship research

Inspired by couples therapy frameworks such as EFT and Gottman style research. Built for real time conflict and repair.

EFT inspired repair prompts

We slow down escalation, name the underlying emotion and need, and help you make a clear ask.

Gottman style conflict skills

Prompts encourage a gentle start, repair attempts, and turning toward each other when it matters.

Clear session outputs

You leave with a shared summary and a short list of next steps you both approve.

Neutral and private by design

Structured turns and consent first analytics. LoveFix is designed to avoid taking sides.

LoveFix is not therapy. We reference EFT and Gottman style concepts as inspirations for our prompts. We are not affiliated with or endorsed by The Gottman Institute.

Outcomes

What changes in your relationship

Small shifts you notice in weeks, not months.

Shorter fights
Less “you never listen”
More successful repairs

FAQ

Do we need to be in the same room?
No. You can start solo or together, and invite your partner when ready.
Is this a replacement for therapy?
No. It’s guided support for communication and next steps. Use it alongside therapy or as a first step.

Safety note

LoveFix isn’t for emergencies. If you feel unsafe, there’s abuse, or there’s risk of harm, please contact local emergency services or a trusted professional.

Ready to try

Start in minutes, no waiting

Skip the spiral: structured steps that keep both of you regulated and heard.

2 free sessions • No credit card • Private

Not sure yet? Take the attachment style quiz to understand what’s happening between you two.