Built on Gottman and Perel relationship science
It’s never really about the dishes
Chores, mental load, and who notices what: a calm way to talk about the work of a shared life.
- Name the invisible work without a fight
- Each side heard privately, no interruptions
- A fair split you actually both agree to
Two free private sessions. No card required.
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Sound familiar?
If any of these hit home, you're not broken. You're stuck in a pattern
“We keep having the same argument”
Different day, same fight. It's never really about the dishes, and you both know it.
“I don’t feel heard”
You explain how you feel and it lands as criticism. So you stop trying, and drift further.
“Therapy feels too big”
Expensive, slow, and you'd both have to agree to go. So nothing changes.
Why this works
What you get in LoveFix
The chores fight is about feeling seen. LoveFix gives each of you a private space with Sage to say what the invisible work costs you, and a fair way forward you both sign off on.
The load, not the list
Sage helps you talk about noticing, planning, and remembering, not just who scrubbed the pan.
No one plays judge
Sage never decides who’s right. It helps you both feel seen, then builds the plan together.
Small changes that stick
Leave each session with one or two concrete agreements, not a chore chart that dies by Friday.
The part no one else does
You each talk privately. Sage finds the common ground.
Two separate conversations. Neither of you ever sees what the other wrote. Only the shared way forward.
You, privately
He changed the weekend plans without even asking me.
It sounds like being left out of the decision hurt more than the plan itself.
Them, privately
I just handled it so it would be one less thing to stress about.
You were trying to protect the weekend. That care matters here.
The shared insight
You both want to feel like a team. One of you needs to be part of the decision, the other needs their effort to be seen. Same goal, two different ways of showing it.
This is illustrative. Your real sessions stay completely private.
★★★★★
“We were stuck in the same argument for months. After one session we finally got it. It wasn’t the dishes. Within weeks we learned how to manage our conflicts better. And we keep learning.”
Maya & Jordan, together 4 years · from our early testing group
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Chores, mental load, and who notices what: a calm way to talk about the work of a shared life.
Two free private sessions. No card required.